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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok... So basically at work, we had this national conference (a place to mingle). Anyways I went to work the next day at my local branch, and received an email from this girl who I noticed was at the conference. Asking if I enjoyed it. This was a shock to me, because she must have made a real effort to find out my name, and then to email me. Her branch is 80miles away from mine. So we both started emailing and to be honest, she was kinda forward. We then went off work email to text/whatsapp each other. We was getting along really well and it's clear we are both interested. Even that night she gave kiss text and sed she is glad to email me. So since then, we have been texting, but she has stopped texting as much. She hasn't replied to my latest text. Now I don't know if she is for real and does like me, if so... Then why has she gone all cold. Either she is real or she is being fake to me and doesn't really like me or is interested. Any explaintion to why she has gone all cold now?Thank you for your time
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 October 2014):
how about she didn't get the text?
I once sent my hubby a text in AUGUST. He got it in November. I know because I was sitting with him when the text came in and he showed me.
My very good friend just his weekend sent me a text to let me know that FIVE pictures I sent her on Friday at 4 pm did not arrive until Saturday at 6 am.....
texting is NO WAY to have a relationship.
IF you like her and are interested.. pick up the damn phone and CALL her.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (4 October 2014):
With texting all the time and not meeting can put a strain on the friendship. However there is a possible that she may have met someome else or maybe she is wondering why you did not suggest a meeting. Now you know the tone of your texts so the question is was there any suggesting of a meeting. I noticed from your letter there was no mention of the odd phone call to each other .Best luck. Nora B.
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female
reader, NORA B +, writes (4 October 2014):
With texting all the time and not meeting can put a strain on the friendship. However there is a possible that she may have met someome else or maybe she is wondering why you did not suggest a meeting. Now you know the tone of your texts so the question is was there any suggesting of a meeting. I noticed from your letter there was no mention of the odd phone call to each other .Best luck. Nora B.
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