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writes: hi,i was looking for some advice on dating, i was wondering how other people started off, id prefer to be friends first with the guy but how about meeting and dating strangers on a night out.whats best way to go about dating? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (11 August 2011):
I've never ever turned a friendship into romance. I have tried. Some prefer it, some fear it. When that magical spark comes, do something about it, whether the spark hits you at once, or having been friends for years.
That being said, the best move for me was online dating. You aren't wondering if the person wants a relationship, you know they do, and provided they are honest, you know they are also unattached. Its not for losers at all. It is for people who want to be efficient. You still have to go through the work of dating. Can't get around that.
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