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writes:Whats it like to have a girlfriend? I never had one and I'm very curious about love and sex. I heard relationships can be stressful and can be a pain in the neck sometimes. I really want to have a girlfriend, I guess I haven't met the right girl yet. I think that love is the best thing you experience in life, well is it? Reply to this Question
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (13 October 2011):
 Having a GF is overrated. If youre looking for love, which is a very loose term nowadays so whenever society can find a universal definition for it let me know cause Im obviously lost... OR maybe just vastly experienced with high emotion relationships. Dating is a time for games and jokes, not serious love like I sense that you describe. Marriage is the only relationship likely that will allow you to have a fulfilling, and hopefully lasting relationship with a woman. In the US, dating is normal among the culture, I understand and, well, I guess can barely respect its nature. Dont eliminate that option but be very damn careful who you involve in your life love wise. Give it all to one and not many, or youll lose the taste and even crave for it like I have.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (13 October 2011):
Yeah, I was going to say let us know when you find out but looks like its already been said. Love is one of those things you rarely find when you look for it, and them wham, something hits you like a freight train. Nothing is like the first time, nor anything like the pain when it leaves you. The only thing I would advise is to define your own rules, and learn to have faith and confidence in yourself and the right people will suddenly be there. Don't try to be someone you are not. Your patience will be rewarded!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): Well I'm a girl but I can talk in relation to having a boyfriend, at our age, especially for the intimate side of things, is great, it's something new and something for us to explore. As for the feelings side, it really depends on the person you are with and how well you connect, I've had my share of bad relationships that end up being a waste of my time, but I've luckily found one person who I can really see myself being with for a long time. It's hard to find the right person so you may be waiting around a long time for that.
I do think love is the best thing you can experience in life, and I can't wait till one day when I'm much older that I can not only experience love with my partner, but also experience the love of bringing a child into this world together. But that's far ahead, but yes, best thing in life I would say is love.
Having a boyfriend/girlfriend can be very stressful but if it's the right person then it's worth it. And of course your partner is going to get on your nerves at times, of course there are going to be disagreements and arguments, but it's apart of relationships. Apart from the bad stuff, it's incredible, having someone there to be yours and you theirs.
I hope you experience love in the near future, until you find the right girl though, don't get punched up about it, enjoy life, there's bonuses to single life too. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2011): It's pretty much the best and worst thing in life at the same time.
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reader, rfp +, writes (13 October 2011):
Just sit back and relax. One day you may be attracted to one or more. Just don't rush it. Focus on your future career.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 October 2011):
 Please let me know, when you find out!!!....
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