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writes: I asked a guy I am talking to over the internet who lives in another state why he had deleted my recent comments on Facebook and he said he didn't know what I was talking about and that he hadn't touched Facebook. I retyped my comment again and today not only has my comment been deleted but his initial comment as well. He typed Why do dogs always run to the door as if it's for them when the door bell rings?I commented which I thought was absolutely harmless."Maybe because dogs are smarter than the average bear and want to check out who it is at the front door before welcoming them into their home. Man's best friend."He also made a comment " If men had periods they would have to wear huge Tampons.I commented " That's why men don't have periods as they aren't cut out emotionally for what women have to endure every month."I feel very hurt and decided that he is no friend of mine in not only lying about the initial deleting of my comments but deleting them a second time plus his own comment so perhaps I should delete him. I didn't think my comment's were out of line.He mentioned over the phone the other night after that morning that I made the comments that I thought I was so smart etc because I study Psychology and Criminology at Uni and he didn't ask for my comments. I don't think that at all about myself.I see that other friends have posted comments to him such as Oh please I was enjoying the peace and quiet without your comments over Easter etc and he hasn't deleted that comment??What's his problem and why is he treating me like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): This sounds like a silly situation and he sounds very immature--from his comments, and from saying the "you think you're so smart" stuff. Just from what you've described here, that kind of talk was totally uncalled-for.
Don't waste your time with this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2011): You are trying to battle and strong arm an emotionally unavailable man or a very uninterested man to your way of thinking and this is a losing battle. You want to aggressively sell him something he just doesn't want to buy. Not only does that come across pushy but it will result in the attention you are seeking from him just being a negative experience for him.
Give up the battle and stop trying so hard to force feed him your friendship. Your comments are baiting, negative, confrontational, but most of all agenda based. It's no wonder he deletes them.
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