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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi all so im confused ok ive been mates with this guy for a long time , we did sleep together ages ago but decided to put that behind us and stay mates , slept together about 5 months ago and still stayed mates normal mates who didnt sleep togthere anyway we been texting alot for two weeks and he texted me that he wants to be lovers who kiss and cuddle and do things together , i told him you really mean that and he said yes ,i said i want a realationship and he said he does too so we met a few days later drank in pub with mates and he invited me back to his and we drank and talked and ended up sleeping together .anyway a friend of both of ours was out with me and he texted me i didnt have my phone was at the bar and texted him .anyway he said to our mate how he finds me a great girl but doesnt see me as anything more and couldnt see us as having a realationship .im dont regreat sleeping with him , and hes now texting me asking me if im ok and i havnt answered . im confued can anyone tell me what he playing at .
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reader, myp  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 Confront him. Ask him straight out if he wants to be more than friends. Thats the only way youll ever know, dont ask his friends, dont ask your friends, ask him. Tell him how you feel, that your really confused about your relationship with him and would like a straight answer. Dont txt him, do it face to face so you can see his eyes, 90% of what a person says is body language, only 10% is whats actually coming out of their mouth. best of luckmessage me if you want to talk =)-Myesha
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