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writes:I met a guy and became friends we decided to date and he took himself off the dating site as I did too , we came friends on facebook then after a mis understanding he unfriended me he doesn't know I know this as he knows I would question things like that but I found him back on the dating site but didn't tell him I knew he was on he's come off again after 2 week , during this time he was still talking to me and meeting up for dates he's now talking in sentences like if we get together would I this and that or do this n that I don't want to ask him coz ill never understand a mans mind but anyone have an idea what's going on in his head ? Thanks for any insight
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2015): Your question is lacking so much until it would be impossible to give u a honest answer from a man's perspective,a couple of dates doesn't justify a relationship & maybe the misunderstanding was a major red flag of things to come. QUOTE " he knows i would question things like that" kinda leaks the idea of control issues, do u want a child or a man?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 January 2015):
 The only way to know is to ask him but if you did he could always deny his true intention. If he literally said this and that I am afraid he's looking at this as casual and he hopes you would put out but can't be too explicit to scare you off. He wants you to have it in your head and the balls would be in your court if you want to get physical right away. I am not too eager to ask this guy because he blew you off for two weeks and he's not putting effort in getting to know you. More like keeping you as an option.
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