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writes: Hi there. My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago. We were seeing each other for 2 years. It was a long distance relationship, I live in Pa and he lives in MA. There is also a big age difference, Im 28 he's 21. We broke up because we were fighting a lot, he said we were at different points in our lives (I wanted kids and hes no where near that)and I think he developed feelings for someone else (he said nothing ever happened with them). So we stopped talkin for 2 months and started talkin again about a month ago. I really miss being with him and I realized all the mistakes I have made and things I should have done. Im still in love with him. Things I wanted then have changed. (like wanting kids and moving up there. I want to move up there now).He said hes not in love with me anymore but he still cares about me a lot. He calls me several times a day and sends me good night messages when he goes to bed. He tells me he misses me here and there, tells me how special I am, how caring, etc. He said if his feelings came back we would get back together. I see a big change in him. He's a lot nicer,sweeter and honest. We had a personal situation come up that will be done with in 2 weeks. He said after that is over we can focus on each other and see how things are. He said he feels like we are gettin to know each other all over again, like starting fresh. I feel the same way. Things have been going great! So my question is what can I do or what shouldnt I do to get his feelings to come back. I want to be with him more than anything but I dont want to push it. Should I distance myself a lil to see if he misses me or talk to him everyday like I am? I'm driving myself crazy! I just dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): hey whats up? Listen Iam actually going through the same thing with my ex girlfriend. To be honest with you I think you should kind of distance yourself a little from him sometimes it takes a slap in the face to wake up trust me. Then I would ( not going to like this ) start seeing other guys cause by him knowing that he can take his sweet ass time to see what he feels knowing that your there waiting 4 him is only going to lead him to play with your heart. He has to have the feeling that he's on the verge of losing u then his true feelings will come out good luck and i hope things work out for you the way you want
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