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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi there, some advice needed please! Met a man in the bar last week and he gave me his number/email. We arranged to meet tomorrow lunchtime but tonight, he called just to confirm but he was drunk on the phone. He seemed really different and didn't stop swearing in general. He told me that he had climbed Ben Nevis four times and when I said 'you're joking? That's great' he replied 'I don't f*cking joke about things and that's something you need to learn about me' and his talk was quite confrontational and agressive - peppered with all the swearing it was really offputting and I felt pretty uncomfortable the whole time. Shall I call off tomorrow and not meet him? I think I should but I am just seeking advice to find out if I am overreacting. Thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): YES! Do NOT agree to meet him! If he was like this on the phone, how do you think he'd behave if you go out with him?
It does not sound good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Darling. A few warning signs here,his words sounded very controlling and i am in charge? On the side of him, maybe he was exicted and anxious.Dont meet him for now but see how the calls go.
Best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): You are NOT overreacting. The main thing is, you have doubts about this guy, and that's not good. He is basically showing signs that he is capable of being abusive towards you. The fact that you met him in a bar and then he phoned you when he was drunk may also suggest that he has alcohol issues, which is something you would not want to get yourself into. At the end of the day it's your desicion, but i don't think you should meet him. Good luck xox
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