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writes: i like this man who works in my bank i go in about twice a week, i thought there was a connection between us, i felt like i could be myself when i spoke to him and i make him laugh. Anyway he asked me about 6 weeks ago if i lived on my own or if i live with my parents so i said i live on my own with my 2 children, nothing else got said i cant believe now that i didnt ask him why he wanted to know, im kicking myself because now im curious why he asked. Maybe im reading too much into it, he might just be making conversation with me afterall its his job to be friendly. But thats not all last week i found out that he's married, so its made me more curious why he'd ask me a question like that. do you think im reading too much in to it? dont know if to ask him about it with it being over a month ago.please give me some advice what to do.sorry my question is long.
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (23 June 2006):
 A month ago? Think it might be a little late to bring it up. I'm sure the subject will come up again some other time and you can take the chance then and ask.
If you really want to know, pick a time when you're getting along well and bring it up yourself.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (23 June 2006):
 If he was trying to hit on you during worktime then it is hardly professional...but there maybe an innocent explanation...sometimes bank workers get financial incentives from their employers to sell certain products like life insurance (or at least meet certain targets), and he may have been weighing you up as a potential customer. Certain financial products are only offered to people from certain types of background. Whatever his reasons for asking if he is married then it is a definite no-no...who wants to be with a man who is committed to someone else? What's more, if he is trying to chat you up in the bank, how many other ladies are getting his 'special treatment' at the banking counter. The only thing of yours that he should be handling is your money!
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