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What turns women on?

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Question - (15 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

We all know what the female sexual assets are that make guys drool. They're pretty much all physical ones. However, guys' sexual assets can be intangible. Just wondering, what are the intangible male sexual assets that make girls go, 'I Want'?

Are they body language, posture, movement, voice, and his emotional state?

What about clothing style? Kind of confusing, because clothes are not the man. Neither is money. So how can these two things be a turn on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009):

Satindesire is right. You could have a room full of women and what turns them on could be differnt for each one so its best to just be yourself and the right girl will say...i want...when she sees you.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (15 December 2009):

LazyGuy agony auntYeah, the Twilight movies are NOT about guys taking their shirt off.

If you want to know anything about women, don't ask a woman. They lie. Mostly to themselves.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2009):

Ok the clothes and money thing is very deceiving it's not the clothes or the money themselves it's a guy who is pulled together and looks like he has confidence and self esteem. Those are the two biggest things that turn a girl on a guy who believes in himself and is happy. As Satindesire said, what turns a girl on is completely personal and each girl will be different. It has to be because not all guys and girls are the same there's a wide mix.

Be yourself and know who YOU are, don't try to be someone you're not because it will eventually come out and not be worth it. Confidence, self esteem, smiling, being happy, and being funny are usually a good place to start. Also it never hurts to be clean and smelling fresh, but I do get turned on occasionally by a dirty grimy guy at the end of a long day of work... but that's just me ;)and I love the sound of a mans voice talking to me, really turns me on if he whispers naughty (not raunchy, don't follow anything you hear in porn) things in my ear.

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A female reader, Sincerely Yours United States +, writes (15 December 2009):

Sincerely Yours agony auntPosture is a big one. Body language should represent a confident man: not crossing arms a lot, looking up as he walks, make eye contact, etc.

CLothing taste differs from woman to woman.

Speaking out helps, who doesn't hate to ask "what" after every sentence. Don't be afraid to talk but no when to shut up.

I get turned on by my man when he's being a man. He's in the Army, so it's basically his job to be a man. I like the way he walks, like he's going somewhere.. he's not just waundering around. HE takes long strides and keeps his head up. He looks above the crowd, not through it. I don't really like it when he wears baggy t-shirts because they make him look younger and smaller than he is. I love his jeans that go passed his ankles.. and they don't sag and don't create a wedgie. He wears boots...

I should stop. I really miss him..

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