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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl and i thought this is the one that's meant to be.We exchanged phone numbers and got on great at the start.Thing is i got too desperate and now i don't know how to turn things around.I talked to too many people and was reacting on their advice.When i text i feel as if i am making things worse. Every time i see her she always makes the moves but she knows how i feel about her.She told me that i was worried about her and that i should not be.I'd like to tell her how i feel but i worry that i am still coming across as desperate. I want to give her a break for a while but i feel then i'm not showing interest.What can i do or say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Well first off RELAX. Secondly, it sounds like you need to do some soul searching. I think it is impossible for a person to be inlove when they don't even love themselves and don't even know who they are. I mean by the way you are acting it just sounds like you have no dignity. Acting in desperation is a sign that you are not ready for a relationship in my opinion. You need to learn to love and respect yourself and be happy with yourself without anybody by your side. This what makes you a strong person. Nobody can make you happy but yourself. So if you want to do her and yourself a favor, leave the poor girl alone and work on your attitude and reflect on your behavior and try to fix it. Stop taking other people's advice (that is not their fault it is yours) and try to learn to love yourself a little bit more so that you can be a little more proud, a little more picky and not attach yourself so quickly and in such a pushy way.
So STOP being desperate and start working on your SELF ESTEEM. Work on your dignity and on your pride. That is important.
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