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anonymous
writes: heya right here's the problem me and this lad friend have been gettin on extremly well i fancy him but dont know if he feels the same way there have been lots of rumours lately about us fancing each other but these didnt bother him at all but they bothered me, and i kept denying it all, we r really close n love chatting 2 each other, but he doesnt open up easily what shoud i say to find out if he feels the same way or what he thinks of me please answer thanks xxx what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): Ask him on a date, you know, one which results in a situation of closeness - cinema or dancing? If he likes you, potentially he'll make a move. Or if you feel you can deal with it, ask him about who he's interested in dating at the moment. He might be vague - you know, 'oh I like someone but I've not been able to tell them', then you could say, 'I know what you mean' and see how things go from there. Of course, he might confess he's interested in someone else, so that could be a hard time for you if you might feel jealous- but then you'd know and you might be able to just be friends?Good luck!
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