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female
age
30-35,
*topMeFromFalling
writes:so theres this guy . he is amazing. Ive liked him for a while and my sister told me to tell him how i felt cuz "you only livve once" and i took her advice and told him. before i told him, we were perty good friends. we would hang out and talk and all that. i thought he liked me at once because he acted like that towards me. he would hold open doors for me, when he would hug me he wouldnt let go, he would stare at me and smile, yell at a guy who yelled at me, walked me to a party thing to make sure i got there safe, offered to teach me how to be a better fisher lol, and he took my phone and put his name and contact in my phone with a buncha hearts :)after i told him how i felt, he stopped talking to me. if i said hi, he would ignore me. if i sent him a txt he would ignore it and not reply. we stopped hanging out and that was pretty weird cuz he and i hav the same friends. its been like that since november. I havennt given up yet though. but hes switching schools for his senior year.I hate that he did that to me. I have/ am trying to get over him but hes everywhere. my sister is best friends with him and she says he would talk about mee to her and her ex billy. and he would just talk about me in general. She said he says im pretty and gorgeous and all that and he doesnt want ot hurt me. his exact words were "I dont want to hurt an amazing girl like her just because i have a problem. Shes too good for me. I dont deserve her and she deserves someone better" Hes an alcoholic apparently. I want to move on but its hard when everyone knows him and they always talk about him. I would try and meet up with him and talk to him but he wont talk to me. i have realized that we are most likely not meant to be but theres some part of me that holds on to something so small, in hopes that something will happen.there is another guy i like, but sadly, its my sisters ex. she thinks we would be great. but he graduated and hes been busy partying and all that. hes really sweet buuuut, theres a catch... theres a four year age difference. i dont think its that bad but other people do. theres always guys i like but i always cant have them. the first guys a jerk, my sisters ex is just partying, and the other guy just doesnt pay attention to that stuff and thinks of me as a little sister kind of.What should i do? Should i TRY and move on? WHAT?!?!
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reader, j223 +, writes (21 October 2009):
Move on find someone else
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