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writes:Alright, so we all know that it's fun to flirt, right? Well I have a friend that has been flirting with me hardcore lately. I thought it was all fun and games because the group we're in is flirty in general. I play along and have fun with it but I'm really not interested in him in that manner. Now he's put it out there in the open that he's chasing me. Should I speak up and tell him there's no chance? Should I let him know I'm just having fun right now? Should I say nothing and see what happens, if I become interested or not? Ideas?Thanks so much!
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reader, GMWolfman  +, writes (28 March 2009):
i agree with the other message, you will have to tell him there is no chance of getting with you, yet, im in the same boat, *shamefully* i have a friend that is female who has ocd, yet i really do like her...i have been told, by my close friend just to tell her how i feel, i told her and she didnt exactly turn me down :( but i'm kinda sad that we live like 2 worlds apart :( I suggest you tell him how you feel, you dont wanna be with him unless ya like being chased :) i suggest you lay it like it is that way he will understand, i dont need help now, i know my friends are always there for me, they rock, :D
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reader, andy747 +, writes (28 March 2009):
as much as it might hurt you need to tell him immediately that there is no chance. if you let him keep chasing you it will just make him want you more, and will really crush him when you finally do tell him. try to tell him face to face or at the very least over the phone (it would really suck for him if you texted him this), go easy though, he'll be feeling down, so try to talk to him after and make him feel better about himself.
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