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writes:The guy that I like/best friend who I am talking to wants to move. He's been wanting to move since the beginning of the school year. His parents have let him make that decision since his older sister lives to town he wants to move too but he doesn't know what to decide. He tells me he wants to move because of all the bull-crap in our town like friends, teachers, etc. And I've told him to just wait after graduation since he's a junior and just needs a year and a half left but he's not sure if he should do that. What should I do to make him not move? A lot of our friends don't want him to move. Is there anything we can do? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 November 2011):
 Unless he's an army brat, then it's ridiculous for him to move away and start another high school when he's in junior year. He'll have to make friends with teens who have already formed tight knit cliques since the beginning of their freshman year, start over with teachers, and when it comes to sports he'll have to prove himself to new coaches. It will be basically like he's a freshman again, without the familiarity.
I too think he should stick it out till he graduates. You could tell him how you feel about him and your friends could make a pros/cons list about him moving.
All you guys can do is try and persuade him, but at the end of the day he's going to do what he wants.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 November 2011):
 Tell him how you feel about him? If he knows how you feel, and returns those feelings, maybe he will want to stay with you.
If not.. when you love someone you got to set them free. Let him move. You will get to see him again later on.
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