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writes:This is lame and sad but its the truth. I live with my parents and its because there are no jobs here and if I had any money that would remotely cover house, apartment anything like that I would go and move out in a heartbeat. I'm sure your wondering why I'm here, truth is i'm unsure. I'm not sure what my question is but I guess maybe advice if its the thing I think it is.Okay getting to the point of this post. I'm in a online relationship with this guy for the past 6 years. We haven't meet in real life but we've Skype, sent pictures. The only reason why we haven't met is because well neither of us has the money to do so. I know what you're thinking its stupid and pointless and I should go out and meet someone in real life. And its true but there is no prospects here, onless I want to start an affair with a married man, because that's the only way lol and plus i'm related to most people here.So my online bf wanted nude photo's sent, and for me to go on Skype and show him the good stuff. At first I said no and for years I didn't do it, I asked him to stop asking b/c he wasn't going to get them, and for a while he listened then months later he'd ask again. This is and still is a problem that we fight about even though about 2 years ago I finally gave in and sent him a few. These were on my old laptop and i'm pretty sure I deleted the photo's and empty my recycling bin dozens of times before my old laptop broke.My sister (who is going to collage) has a bf who has a job that deals with fixing computers, so Dad suggested he send my laptop to my sister's Bf, to see if her Bf could fix it. Earlier tonight while me and my parents we're eating supper dad had not said one word to either me or mom which was unlike him because he usually talks about something. Which got me to wondering if maybe my sister's bf had fixed the laptop and found those photo's and told my sister and my sister told my parents about them. I know probably just paranoid but when you have 2 parents who say nothing to you for hours upon hours and also stays holed up in 2 separate bedrooms you kind of have to wonder if you did something and they found out about it. Maybe it might have been a fight they had when I was out of the room for a while.I guess what I'm trying to ask here is what should I do if they have found about me sending those photo's and confront me about it?Or maybe this is just my conscience is finally kicking in?
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reader, Chrissy_Pooh  +, writes (7 February 2015):
I think you should ask your sister's boyfriend if he found anything on it.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (2 February 2015):
You have got to figure out how to get out of there, you can't grow up until you do. Borrow money from your parents then go to your bfs house. Stay with him until you get a job.
Our something! Or you'll be stuck there until it's too late for you to start a family. Good luck.
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