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writes:im prego and im 15 years old... me and my baby's father planned this baby. he broke up with me shortly after we found out that im prego. im in love with him and i know u may say im to young but i know how i feel and it wont change. he is acting like a jerk ever since we found out. what should i do about this? what should i do to make him really understand how i feel? what should i do when he says i have an anger problem and he knows theres reason behind why i get angrey and i try to change? what should i do to know if he cares n loves me deep down inside?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This young man does not care to know how you feel. I feel sorry for the baby. Young parents are more likely not to finish high school or even enter college.
What were you and your boyfriends plans after you became pregnant?
Did you plan to quit school and work at Mikey D's or Burger King? Minimum wage will not take care of a young family.
This young man will go on his way probably finish school, meet and marry someone else and start a family. And you will have to suck it up and do the best you can. Hopefully you can get all the support you need from your family. IT WILL BE A LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGG HARD ROAD!!!!!!
But you can still achieve your dreams. Have the fortitude and passion to make your life worth something like you did to get pregnant.
God Bless
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 You are both children yourselves and to plan a baby at such a young age was just a novelty for him. YOU are the one left with the consequences, not him. He has suddenly thought OH SHIT, and I cant blame him. You probably cant get him to change his mind. Just think long and hard about your options. Babies are not toys, they are hard work and you are going to be doing this alone. Talk to your family because you really do need all the help you can get at the moment x
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reader, jred8300 +, writes (25 August 2008):
 alright... the reason hes acting like that is because your pregnant. he doesnt want to have to take care of a baby now. that is why he dumped you. trust me. im a guy i would know. you need to tell him to man up a accept responsibility. forget about how you feel for him because its not about you and him anymore. its about ur baby.
hopes this works
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): Well you really need to take gecko 12 advise thats the best thats here and you shouldn of got pregnant at your age because he was probably using you he probably thought it was a big joke untill you told him you were prego
You will end up being a single parent i know how that is its really hard my mum went through it
Are you really sure you know what you got your self into hun
Hope this Helps hun
GOOD LUK XX
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reader, Ivanhoe93 +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Your not in a good situation. It sounds like he realized how serious things were and got cold feet. I would try to get him to sit down with you and for you 2 to actually talk or even better if you could sit with a counsler or someone in that sense. You say you planned it but lets be real your 15 i don't know a lot of 15 year olds who actually plan for kids, i'm 21 and by no means would i be ready to be a father right now. I don't know your views on religion but i would really try to ask god for help as well he has pulled me out of some pretty bad situations. I hope all goes well and i wish you the best.
God Bless..
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reader, xnickx +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Im sorry but gecko 12 is right. He wants out and nothing to do with you or your baby. The only thing you can do to see if he loves you is ask him how he feels.
I don't know a ton about this stuff but if you need help just send me a message. Or im sure one of the other agony aunts will be able to help.
Im sorry for you and best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is the perfect example of why teenage girls shouldn't get pregnant.
Regardless of whether he truly loves you or not, this thing happens every single day in the media. Particularly in the town I live in - whoa we have some busy girls.
On a serious note, no he probably doesn't love you and I haven't even met him. Ignoring the lectures and stereotypical image, this is the usual thing a guy says to a girl when he absoutley wants OUT!
He probably realized how serious it was when you told him...
Its not a good situation...your on your own with your baby now.
I should probably be a lil more sensitive. So what I suggest you do is decide whether you want an abortion or not. The babies father won't want anything to do with it. If you do then you have to tell your parents without a doubt. If you don't then you need to talk to your doctor about options confidentially...
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