A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. However where I work there is a male worker *ethan* who catches my eye. I work with him at least 4 days a week. He is funny, tiby bit older, flirty, chatty, positive and semi good looking. I often flirt with him and even had a dream about him last night, nothing sexual just chatting laughing flirtingn cuddling and holding hand! It was all secretive in my dream too. I have never done anything with him, we both have partners. I hate when he discusses his partner. Other people have picked up on the flirting in the workplace and mess about with us however I am scared in case I have feelings for him and I don't know what he thinks about me. Everytime he talks to me I smile, I apologise to him if I've been in the slightest bit horrible to him but I don't if its anyone else. I love my partner lots and wouldn't be able to be without him I don think! He's very special to me. But what me and Ethan have is different and flirty and fun. What do I do?
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reader, stegi bean  +, writes (3 January 2015):
 Dont do anything youll regret. Its all fun and games until someone gets hurt. Id keep it platonic. You have a good thing going with your partner and he obviously loves his partner it may be his personality to be flirtatious. If you do anything it may ruin your friendship. Or uour job. Some jobs dont allow work place romance
Just think before you act good luck!
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