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writes:We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him sex then someone else is getting it from me and I told him that he's the only one for me.. he said I am lying.. I asked him if he has any proof that I'm cheating and he didn’t say anything, just said he knows and I know that am cheating.. but I am not cheating on him, I like him.. I've started falling for him.. he says I'm playing games with him.. it seem like he doesn’t care about me any more.. and always starts arguments... I TOLD HIM THAT IS HIM THAT I WANT and that am not cheating on him.. We made up.. I asked him if he still likes me and if he's still interested in me like when we first met.. he said yes.. and he told me to call him we reach home.. I called but he didn’t answer so I text him and it's been 2 WEEKS now he hasn’t called or texted me.. Not even on NEW YEARS.. And I haven’t contacted him either...What is going on? WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW? Please help me..x
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reader, Fee-Fee +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Turn the tables - say it was your best mate in your position with her boyfriend, you'd think he was a tosser, right? You'd tell her to get rid, right?Sounds like he is the one playing games chick - emotional blackmail pretty much!.Spanner has got it bang on - it sounds simple coming from us, but is he really worth the heartache, the emotion and ... well, the effort?!Get rid, text him and tell him you are bored of waiting for him to grow up, ignore any responses and go and find someone worthy of your attention!Fee
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reader, rcn  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Move on. You don't need someone accusing you of doing something you're not doing. Reading between the lines, it's evident something is not right, and hasn't been since his behavior changed. Why do behaviors change in this way? GUILT Why is he accusing you of cheating? More than likely because he's the one who was cheating. When people do this blame placing when they don't have evidence, it's because their is something their guilty of and it's easier to withdraw because of their own guilt than it is for them to point the finger at themselves for violating the relationship.
For instance, he withdraws, yells at you, calls you names, stops calling, you get fed up and break up. Guess what, it's now your fault for breaking up, and he did no wrong. That's not true, but that's the story and he'd be sticking to it. How many people have you dated when they tell you why their last relationship ended say "I cheated on her, so she ended it." That's like someone who's fired for a job for stealing money applying at a new job and putting under "reason for leaving" I stole money. Instead they'd put, "differences with management."
I'd move on and remember changes take place for reasons, not because their isn't one.
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