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writes:I have to put a bit of story behind the question or else it won't make much sense. I'm with a guy who's older than me by four years (he's 20) and we've been together for around 6 months. i met him through a friend as he is the best friend of her boyfriend. we're really close and i feel like i want to be with him for the rest of my life, some might say i'm too young to say this but that's how i feel. We've both agreed that although I'm 16 and it's legal that we'll wait a bit maybe even a few years until we have sex because I'm still very nervous and unsure about it (in fact it was his idea to wait) but until then I want to try oral sex with him to try and make up for the fact I'm not ready for real sex so I have two questions...first off: what shall I do to prepare myself for him giving oral to me, should I shave, wax, and if so shall I get rid of it all or just a bit? and second: i'm not at all sure what to do to him, he's much more experienced than i am and i'm afraid to disapoint him. could anyone give me a step by step or any advice about how to please him orally?would be so grateful for any help and please no negative comments. thanks.
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reader, x.Lily.x +, writes (28 December 2008):
x.Lily.x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAgain i'd like to say thank you for your help and advice, its all very much appreciated. i'd just like to add in response to DoubleM that hes only had one other sexually encounter with another girl and that was him doing oral on her and hes 100% certain hes clean. more help and advice is welcomed and appreciated thank you.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 As usual, "Smiles" provides good advice and you can also research the archives on this Web site for additional information about oral sex, blow jobs, cunnilingus and more. You said that your older boyfriend is experienced, in which case you should be able to rely on him for both versions of oral techniques. I think that it would be very wise to require a condom and oral dam for these activities unless you are certain that he is certifiably free of sexually transmitted diseases due to his previous activities.
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reader, 14all +, writes (28 December 2008):
He's not expecting you to be an expert, just an enthusiastic partner. Every guy likes different things anyway, just like every girl does. Half the fun is figuring it out as you go along. And I'm sure I speak for all men when I say that anything you do to a penis that doesn't break it feels good. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2008): Dear Poster
To your first question; It is a very personal choice and it really depends on personal preference; but I do believe a bikini wax and the rest neatly trimmed should is normally very acceptable. (Unless otherwise specified).
As to your second question; this link (to a similar question recently asked)will provide you with plenty answers and information:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-give-a-smooth-blow-job.html
It is very important that you try to relax; don't do anything you don't feel comfortable to do; you have to enjoy what you are doing and remember we all learn with time and experience. There is no rush, you have lots of time; but only do what you feel ready and comfortable with.
Hope this is of assistance to you.
Best wishes and always keep SMILING.
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reader, x.Lily.x +, writes (27 December 2008):
x.Lily.x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help any little bit is appreciated but if any ones has any tips or tricks please let me know i'm seeing him on wednesday thanks guys.
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