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writes:Ok so theres this guy and he's 20 years old and I met him over this summer we played soccer together every week like 3 times and we fell for each other. I want to get to know him more and have my parents meet him. He's mexican and so cute. My parents told me to not to talk to him they get mad when he calls me..They say they don't know anything about him..but the thing is they don't want him to come over or met him..so its so hard and not right..they say I can't go out with him cause they don't know him but duh if they don't give him a chance how will they meet him. I can't stop thinking about him. Right now he is in FLorida and won't be back until May but we've talked over the phone...We like each other what should I do? Prom is coming up and I would like him to go with me but what do i do about my parents??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Iris7124 +, writes (27 December 2008):
 Hello there. I so remember a situation like this when I was younger. I was 18 years old, met this cute boy who was in the army, told my mother and she had a fit. She too got mad when he called, told me I couldn't see him, didn't want to give him the time of day. I have to admit I snuck out to see him...which is not what I am telling you to do. my story doesnt have a happy ending, and u live and learn.
In your case, I would sit down with your parents (get them on a good day) tell them how u feel about this guy, why u like him and how u maybe wanna invite him over for dinner something so they can meet him and get to know him. dont bring up prom just yet...remember ur mission, you just want them to agree to meeting him first so THEY can get to know him.
they might flip out, they might not. if they flip out, dont flip out right back. hear what they have to say, be civilized (dont yell or throw a tantrum). they will see that u didnt overreact to their answer. they'll see u acted maturly and maybe end up reconsidering if their answer was no. be honest with ur parents. ask them to give him a chance. i hope they give him a chance.
hope this help. best of luck to u and ur guy.
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reader, cutesoccerstar09 +, writes (27 December 2008):
cutesoccerstar09 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis guy is so sweet too its not like hes mean..He's very respectful and treats me well. The thing my parents don't like to is that he isn't a Christian..what do i do? I love being with him.
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