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writes: Should I let the guy that may be the man of my dreams go? We´ve been together 1 month and now he´s going to Italy to work (from Spain). I´m 22 and feel that if I let this relationship go I will regret it later, should I tell him how i feel?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (2 July 2006):
 Hey,
of course you tell him how you feel. There are several ways it could go. You tell him how you feel and ...
1) He feels the same way, doesn't go to Italy for work and you live happily ever after
2) He feels the same way, still goes to work but you keep in regular contact and he lets all the Italien girls know he's taken.
3) he doesn't feel the same way - you move on, you heal and realise it just wasn't meant to be. (then you meet somone Fantastic and live happily ever after!)
If you think he is the man of your dreams then why are you even Thinking about letting him go?! Grab him while you can!
Hope this helped,
Phoebe
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2006): How long will he be in Italy? Is this for a few months' assignment, or is it permanent? In either case, how often will he get home so you can meet? Long distance relationships are not easy. Can you email one another and talk by phone sometimes once he leaves? These are the first sort of things to explore with him.
To be dating just a month is a very short time, and you have a lot of getting to acquainted to do, and him leaving after just such a brief time makes it more difficult. Perhaps you can stay in touch and see him when he's back - or if you are able to visit Italy - but its probably not a good idea to think of dating him only, at this point.
Good luck!
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reader, Smiler +, writes (2 July 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Yes is the only answer here :o) if you think he is indeed the one do the descent thing tell this guy how you feel and see if he feels the same way you never know if he does feel the same way about you then it could change the whole situation altogether you know so what have you got to loose go out there lay all your cards on the table you owe that much to yourself at least.. :o)
I hope my advice was of help to you in this situation :o) and good luck with it. If you ever need a friendly chat of shoulder to cry on or just more advice I'm always here for you
You Take Care X
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