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*utterfly123
writes:hi I just ended a 22 yr relationship with my husband because of his his very selfish and coniving sister . she has hurt our son and our relationship but no matter what she does big or small he NEVER EVER confronts her. he just says im making too much out of it. She runs the show but he just cant see it and I know he will have her back before mine.Im so hurt ive taken care of the whole family for 20 yrs im done.What makes a man be so scared of his little sister?how can he blame me over this, so very unfair. Reply to this Question
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reader, butterfly123 +, writes (29 June 2010):
butterfly123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the replys. he just doesnt want to stand up and the more he doesnt he make me resent her even more. Thanks anyway
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 June 2010):
She has some hold over him and has done for a long time. Or, as I suspect, your husband is just pathetic. That really sums it up. Pathetic. He let his sister rule his marriage, and now he's blaming. Well don't you accept a word of it. Not one word. Next time he tries to blame you, just tell him that he's a weak, pathetic man who has thrown his marriage away because he's got no guts to stand up to his sister. Get a good lawyer, take him to court and screw him for as much as you can. My father is a man like this. Blames everyone but his mother, who is the one who's causing all the trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): all i can think is that she knows something that means he can't tell her off as she can always use it against him.
it's good your son has someone to stick up for him, you sound to be in the right here.
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