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writes: i have a very close female friend. We talk alot, how do i talk to her on a personal level. We talk at least once every 2days and phone conversations last 1-2hours each time. I just want to get closer to her by talking about everything. I don't know what do girls like talking about apart from the general? What kind of deep conversations do girls like discussing?We're 18. Thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Griffo +, writes (11 January 2009):
What ever your talking about for two hours is already the right thing.dont think to much about it mate but some great topics are:
Art, science, the stars, romance, philosophy, shopping, holidays, the future. Just to name a few.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Hey,
I know alot of girls ( me being one of them) like it when boys take and interest in there life such as what they have been doing and how there day has gone and then go from there. If she says something wasnt very good or she felt like rubbish then ask her why and she should start to open up to you.. yourl find out from this what she likes and dislikes so then you can build conversations up on these topics.
Hope this helped xx
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reader, searbear +, writes (11 January 2009):
Well i like to know gossip, so anything like friend or family problems. I also like to talk about what happened to me throughout the day. Other than that and celebrities, that's about it for me. Every girls different though.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (11 January 2009):
Dont worry about deep conversations. It sounds like you guys do fine as it is. What are you wanting to tell her? It sounds as though you are wanting to tell her you like her much more than a friend. If thats true then just tell her the best way you can. But if what you really want is to be closer friends, then you have to find out her hopes and dreams and things like that. That would help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): earn the trust of her friends! and then u will have a topic to discus with her. and when she see that they trust u, she will open up to u slowly
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