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writes:What is your favorite fantasy and have you had the pleasure of living it out? How far would you go to live out your partners fantasy? Do uniforms and sexy lingerie turn you and your partner on? Do you like to see your man in sexy shorts, vest tops and unifoms? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Men in costume or lingerie or shorts look homosexual..not attractive at all. I have no fantasy anymore. I just want to have a happy life with my family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): I like to dress in nice sexy stuff but i know my bloke just loves me to be myself and doesnt need the fancy stuff to get aroused. Fantasies are ok just so long as they stay that way. I know some people have a fantasy about threesome etc but it is knowing where to draw the line. The only stories i have heard have been of people who end up getting hurt and there are tears afterwards. Have a bit of fun, get some dressing up stuff if you want, enjoy life. It is behind your closed doors so who cares.
take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): As far as fantasies go I believe that they should stay fantasies, they never live up to expectation.
Dress up.... now thats fun! I would lovefor my guy to play dress up for me (if I got to choose it would be the white captain suit hmmmm), i love nothing more than going out and finding something new and exciting to wear for him in the bedroom (or elsewhere in the house) it makes me feel good and I love the look on his face!
Also I have this thing I do where I buy really kinky undewear and knowing we have to go out I will secretly wear it. I have great pleasure in being out and telling him what I have on under my clothes knowing he cant touch me until we get home. The anticipation kills him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): I personally don't really like playing dress up with my guy. I just don't like things that are contrived. Like if I buy lingerie, chances are I would rather him notice it by accident rather than plan a whole lingerie sex fest. When it comes to sex, I think spontaneity is better than too much planning and dressing up. Sure that can be real sexy but not as sexy as when you least expect it or when it is not too planned or verbalized. Just pure instinct. Another thing you should know is that guys are very versatile. You could find out what his "ultimate fantasy" is but the truth of the matter is that if you are creative enough and confident enough, you could ultimately become his ultimate fantasy without knowing a thing about what he wants or what he thinks he knows. In other words don't ask him what his ultimate fantasy is. Just show him what his ultimate fantasy is. It'd be the same if you asked a guy who his favorite girlfriend was. You don't want to ask him that. You just become his favorite girlfriend. Same with fantasies. Guys are always looking for something better. So don't ask him about the past, show him who you are, something new and something better. Just be confident and be yourself. Forget what he thinks he knows about fantasies. Just be innovative and act like you are the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Im only young, but i still fantasize. I like men with no tops, muscular arms and six pacs, with long gey trousers on. Dnt know why. Never dream of them in costumes, jst thnk this makes them lk kinda homosexual. I thnk of me with this dark, hansome man though, n im in a sexy romantic red see through dress, n its all abit italian style with sexy music in the bckground. hope ths helpedxxx
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