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female
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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:Why can't I find a boyfriend? I am almost 21 and I have actually never been in a real relationship. I feel like a loser because everyone else I know has been. The closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but slept with another girl behind my back. I think that's all I will ever get, so I still talk to him. He treated me badly and still does, only talking to me if he wants me to sleep with me.Being a full-time university student, any extra time I have, I spend with my close friends to make sure we stay in touch, so I don't know how I can meet other people.Is there ever a chance for a relationship for me or am I incapable of one?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Stuff happens for people at different times. Don't be discouraged, you'll find a boyfriend. I had about 4 ex boyfriends when I was 21 and I regret every single one. I wish I had waited when I was older and wiser becoz they were all BIG MISTAKES.
Good for you. Wait for the right guy, don't just date just because.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Just go and talk to nice quiet guys. There are probably tons of them around at school. The kind of people you don't really notice. Don't go after the gorgeous, super confident, perfect people. Look for regular smart guys and start up conversations. Lots of guys are begging to have some kind of interaction with girls, and you can meet some nice new people even if they don't become your boyfriend right away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Everyone's got their chance. But, as a guy, most of the time we won't come to you if you're looking. Just drift through college and have fun. Eventually you'll find someone. It's not that something is wrong with you at all.
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