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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, Have posted another couple questions anonymously but hoping this will be my last.Quick back story- Went out with ex LD for 3 months. Broke up 3 weeks ago, she told me it was because we werent comfortable in person/i didnt try hard enough with her friends/we dont talk enough in person.First 2 weeks of break-up I was NC.She chatted to me, then we got chatting again as friends.Last night, i apologized to her pretty emotionally online for ths issues that i think really upset her, not the rubbish reasons she gave for break up.She told me as i was apologizing that i shouldnt worry, that most guys wouldn't have realised/admitted to it, and that at the end she told me it meant a lot to her to hear it.I haven't spoken to her since and even though I thought I was over her I have a new urge to get her back, she means so much to me that i would do anything.I'm not sure what to do , as , online normally she's always the one who has to start the conversation, except last night where i went into the convo with the intent on apologizing.Apologizing did make me feel a bit better, a bit less guilty about some of the things i really regret, but I still feel bad as i want her back. What is my next move? Wait it out and see if she talks to me again? and if so, and she dosen't bring our relationship up as a topic, do i bring it up myself or assume it's a lost cause?Thanks : )
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