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writes:My G\F does the following* Criticizes the mess i make in bathroom before i have chance to clean up* Criticizes how I prepare food, wash up, dry etc* Gets irritated if i leave a cup on table without coaster* complains if i get crumbs on the chair or spill anything* Says i'm Clumsy. I irritate her* Refers to my habits as 'Gross'. Tells me to get hair cut* Has put me down in front of other people a few times* Tells all his friends and family i'm a grot around the houseI am always on guard and scared for doing things the wrong way or not his way. I feel so stupidWhat is wrong with her ? Is it me, I have no confidenceanymore
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (12 July 2008):
Unfortunately, she's just being a woman. However, she needs to pick her battles. Maybe she picks up on your lack of self confidence and knows you won't challenge her; therefore, she nags and bitches at every single thing you do. Give her a reality check. Tell her that you are an adult and you can pick up after yourself and that you will do it. I'm a bit ashamed to admit it, but I was like that with my ex-boyfriend. I was like that because he wouldn't pick up after himself until a few hours or maybe even a week later and it would drive me nuts because then I'd end up having to do it myself which added onto the tons of other crap I had to do. Just help out a little bit.
On another note, don't let her put you down in front of others. When she does, make another rude comment back. Make her feel as embarrassed or insecure as she does. It will probably make her mad, but let her know that, that is how you feel when she does it to you. She may come around. But she probably acts the way she does because she knows you won't stand up to her.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 July 2008):
 Funny, this question sounds exactly like the one here, only with the hers/hims mostly changed. Well, not all of them were changed, there seems to be some gender confusion.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-sort-of-behavior-is-my-boyfriend-displaying.html
Sounds like she (or is it he?) is a bit of a jerk.
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