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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I were together for about 5 years and broke up in the beginning of this year. We slept together for months after the break up and were talking about getting back together when we had a few months of arguments and things fell apart. We still slept together a handfull of times after that (until very recently) and I'm still in love with him and wanted to be together but I accepted that it wasn't to be. I had been trying to be friendly with him but he was being cold and not really responding. Recently I met a new guy and we went to hang out somewhere. I bumped into some of the ex's friends and I'm guessing that they mentioned to him that they had seen me with another guy. The next day he started texting me and asking me if I had given my number to other guys that night and how many guys number's did I get and basically asking me who I was hanging out with things of that nature. Now all of a sudden my ex is texting me, being really friendly, and trying to make me laugh. He also wants to get together for lunch, after weeks of being wishy washy on trying to be friends. What's going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): stay away from this ex, please!! my ex was the same exact story!!! no good!!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
This is a case of a man who doesn't want you to move on, because there's always the chance that he will be able to come back for sex and you might give in. He has no right to be asking you all these questions since you've moved on. Be very careful. He might claim that he wants to get back to you, then dump you again. I wouldn't bother with him, and instead find another guy.
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