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writes:My mobile phone contract recently expired and my old provider, who my boyfriend is also with weren't offering any good deals at all. I found a really good deal with another provider and ordered it. My boyfriend then flipped out and said I have to either cancel it or leave our home. I don't know what the hell his problem is. He said I should have thought about him cos he can now no longer call me for free. He rarely calls me anyway and never ever replies to my texts. And I can call and text as much as I like now within my new plan? I don't know what his problem is. He knows how much I wanted the phone I got yet he's completely spoiled it for me and I wish I'd never got it. Really is the last 3 years a joke to him???
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 June 2011):
I think sadly you've just discovered that he's very controlling. Tell him you're above cancelling phone contracts (for which you'll have to pay your provider a lump sum to cancel it, by the way, so it's not advisable.) And also, if you're name is on the mortgage/rental agreement, you don't have to leave.
More importantly though, look very, very carefully at your relationship, because if he's controlling about a phone contract, God only knows what else he'll be controlling over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2011): It sounds like to me is he is being selfish. Yes he wanted you to join his cell-phone provider plan so your guys talk are free, but he should understand in your point of view as well.
I think what you can do is just confront him about it in a friendly way. For example, "I dont blame you for being mad, I love you and I want to talk to you, but you have to understand that I really wanted this phone." you dont have to say exactly that, but you know the concept.
and sorry about spoiling the mood for you part(I kinda know how that feels when someone disaproves something you really wanted) Its like a stab in the heart.
Well i hope this helps! Good luck!!
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