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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: When I was in a serious relationship with my ex-girlfriend few months back, I was not happy being around her....constantly thinking about our relationship 's future since she was from rich family and I was from middle class having no secured job in my hand. Right now, when it's been three months since we broke up, still, happiness is something miles away from me. Would someone tell me that what is happiness?
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reader, Another_Kapiti +, writes (15 November 2009):
Happiness is different for everyone! It's more about how feel inside yourself that matters. You say you weren't happy when you were with your ex, so what were the underlying factors of why you weren't happy? Money (everyone says money doesn't matter, but it does), I'd say was an issue for you as the male having less money than her (perhaps culturally?).
Why don't you just do things that make YOU happy for now? Concetrate on making your own happiness and everything else should fall into place.
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