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writes:i am 22 years old and i have a cousin (my mothers sister's son), he's 2 years younger to me. We have always been friendly n never really acted like brother-sister, but this time when i met him i began to have feelings for him that are not so sisterly.We kept holding hands and hugging each other, and the last night we spent together we were in each others arms throughout, though we did'nt do anything other than hug each other. Now im back at my place which is very far away from where he is, but we miss each other like crazy, and talk as often as we can, but all of a sudden he has started emphasizing that im his older sister. I dont know what all this means, i cant understand why i have such feelings towards him.Sometimes it disgusts me but i cant push away the feelings, and now he's trying to come down to my place in a week or two. I guess he doesnt understand his feelings either. I also have a boyfriend who i was crazy about until now, now i dont feel that strongly for him. What do i do? What is all this? please help me out.
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reader, supermum  +, writes (16 September 2008):
 You need to stop this now... you will hurt yourself, family, friends, and your Bf, let alone your cousine. You are related and this would be incest... please think carefully... its ok to have a crush, just dont let it go any further than that
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