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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I was wondering what's okay when it comes to your husband looking at other women. I don't mind my husband looking, but I absolutely hate it when he stares (and he ALWAYS stares). I know men will always look, heck, even I look once in awhile, but do you have to put up with him staring at these women while your sitting right there? I always end up comparing myself to her, thinking "what does she have that I dont?" or, "I wish he would look at me that way". I hate feeling that way! I have told him it makes me uncomfortable, but he doesn't seem to care! So...what do I do? I don't feel like I should put up with it (he has a problem when I stare at men, so why should I allow him to stare?). Any ideas or advice?? Reply to this Question
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reader, familyguy +, writes (31 July 2009):
something is bothering him. ask him if he is happy with his sex life.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (30 July 2009):
 Just say to him 'Honey could you please stop checking put other womens racks, because it's seriously pissing me off'
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'Im fine with you scoping other womens breasts as long as you don't mind me, from now on, mentioning every hot package that passes my way' Don't you just LOVE equality!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): I agree with icelordess - there's no problem with him doing it if you don't mind and if there's no double standard with him thinking you looking at men is unacceptable. In your case neither of these is true so he shouldn't be doing it. I agree you should look openly at another man, not to be spiteful or anything, but just so your husband understands how it would make him feel, and hopefully see that what he's doing to you is the same.
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