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writes: Well this sounds really stupid but I'm scared about Tossing my bf off for him. And he wants to finger me. I'm scared I'll get it wrong and he will get it wrong as I feel I'm too tight. He might try 2 fingers and they just won't go up .. and if I go to toss him off he will feel I am doing it wrong.I don't know what to do. Please help me. I'm 14-15 and I know I'm ready for something. :( I think anyway - please help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2007): I think that if you really want to do it then go for i just make sure you arent nervous or scared first.
So what if one of you do it wrong?! We all make mistakes!!
I'll give you one bit of advice though, if you do toss him off do it gently don't squeeze too hard and just go with the flow. A boy fingering a girl isn't too complicated and you wont be too 'tight' if you are relaxed and comfortable!!!
G o o d L u c k x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): Hey
I know you wont agree but i think that if your not looking forward to it and your just worrying then you are probably not as ready as you think you are. If you aren't completely ready then it wont be as good trust! And also you wont be too tight because think about it; babies need to get out! if you just relax and enjoy it then you wont have any problems. Hope i helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2006): Take this at a comfortable pace. If you aren't sure about doing something, don't do it. Once you have you can't take it back, so make sure you're really ready for these kinds of things. If you're sure about it, then just take it slow. You don't have to be scared about what will happen. If things become too much to handle, then kindly let him know. If he doesn't stop doing something you don't like, you need to be more direct and tell him no. Just don't worry about doing it right or wrong. Do whatever feels good and comfortable. I hope this helps. Take care of yourself and remember to stay safe when doing things like this. Don't do it if you aren't ready. There's no deadline. You can wait as long as you want to. Always respect yourself.
~RJGirl
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