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writes: I recently started seeing a guy from work (which may be my first no-no) and he's asked me out and/or over every night for 2 weeks now. I've explained that I'm not high strung when it comes to my boy's friends or activities and he's expressed multiple times that I'm the only one he wants to see. He says he's confused about committing, but wants me over every night. I'm just confused about what's going on. Sex hasn't been a part of the equation, but what he says and does are two completely opposite things. What could be going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2007): just go with the flow, don't get sexual with him...eventually you'll find out that he has a girlfriend and that he's had one the entire time. if he was truly a man and truly into you, his actions would match his words; use him for some free dinners, but don't get too emotionally attached; trust me, you're not the only one he's seeing; things are confusing to you because he's having trouble juggling all the women he's seeing
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (1 January 2007):
 Maybe he said that so you won't think that he's coming on too strong to you, and scaring you away. He probably wants to take it slow, and see what comes out of it. Right now he's just "testing the waters" to see if you and him have a future together or not. Maybe he was hurt by someone else that he cared about, so he's just making sure that you don't do the same.
Just go with the flow and see what happens. Take things one day at a time. If you want to be with him, all things will fall into place!
Good Luck to You!
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