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writes:I was seeing a guy who works in the same building as me for a few weeks, we met up in a hotel and at his place and also at lunch times. These meetings became just for sex for him. We decided that after a certain week end we would leave it so no one got hurt because he obviously didnt want anything more that sex and i didnt like the thougt of only seeing and speaking to someone for sex. He then told me mid week he was out on a date (the day after us having sex) i was shocked has he said he didnt do dates!! We have text friendly messages since, he didnt reply to some so i didnt bother texting again, i then bumped into him with his work mates and (he thought i hadn't seen him) he tried hiding and all his mates started laughing......i'm not sure hwat he has told them but i have to work with all these people............what could i do.......i feel sooo humiliated?
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (13 August 2008):
 Honey, why should you feel humilated. It sounds to me like you would have dated this guy, its him that used it as a sex session, not you.
He is an immature idiot, so dont worry about it. So what if his stupid mates have a laugh, they probably think he is a rotten person for doing it really, but of course they wont say so.
Hold your head up and ignore them.
Dont let anyone do it again to you though. XXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): Without knowing what was said to his workmates it's difficult to answer this one, but the best I can come up with is for you to wiggle your little finger with a knowing smile in his direction when his mates are looking. The laugh - whatever it is - will be on him then.
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