A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hiya, erm, well I was with this amazing lad for over 10 months and about a month ago everything started to go wrong, he wouldn't kiss me or hold my hand orrr say he loved me or anything he just wasn't himself at all. He started college in sept and I've just finished it (i'm 1 1/2 years older than him) and since he started he's changed so much, changed how he acts, speaks, dresses and how he begaves with me.Before all this he was amazing and he was the best boyfriend ever but the change was so so sudden and now it's like he hates me :( I've always been there for him when he needed me and we never argued or anything like that we were just totally in love. He finished me with no reason :S and now he doesn't want to be my friend either...i've had to delete everything about him from my life to let him move on, so I don't have an urge to talk to him or disturb whatever he's doing.I'm finding it difficult to move on because i'm always so frustrated and sad now :( i'm just utterly confused and it's like he really, really doesn't care. How can you be in love with someone one second then the next be so cruel?please help, I need some advice, what dya think happened? How can I move on? He was my first boyfriend and i'm not really the type to just go off and find someone else, he was really special to me :(thanks a lot everyone xxx
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