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writes:My girlfriend and I have had fantastic sex. She would even brag to a couple of her close female friends how this is the first time she has such great sex. However, the past couple of months our sex life is practically nill. Not for my lack of trying either. It started with her inability to take her birth control pills regularly. We set alarms on our cell phones as reminders which helped for awhile, but then she began to forget to get the prescription filled. She doesn't like the feel of a condom, so won't do it with one. So when we talk about this, her fear/concern over getting pregnant is why she is avoiding sex. So I fulfill her sexually in other ways, but she never reciprocates! Leaving me to finish myself off the next day. We are now going on 6 weeks without my being pleasured by her. While our relationship isn't based on sex, it is a very important aspect to me - and I have told her that, many times. What is going on here? Seems like she is avoiding me sexually. We have great times with each other every day, doing everything else together. We talk dirty and flirt with each other during the day; talking about sex that night and then at night she just rolls over and goes to sleep. Very baffling to me. Any ideas?
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (21 May 2008):
 This is what I was talking about before. This page says it's a once a month contraceptive.
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/youth/health/contraceptives/ring.htm
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is 30. Says she has tried the patch before and had a bad experience with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): PMS She could be at the age that her hormones are going nuts. Has she seen a doctor? Very important at this age! Does she get hot flashes? Mood swings? If yes, she should see a doctor.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (20 May 2008):
Oh, and now that I think about it, there's also some kind of skin patch too!
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (20 May 2008):
I don't have an answer for you regarding how you're baffled about what to do, but I wanted to say that there are other birth control options. There's some kind of insertable ring (I don't know the name) but it seems like it was a once a month kind of thing. I don't know much more than that, but you could have her speak with her doctor for other options available beside the traditional pill.
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