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What happened in 2 days for her to change her mind?

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Question - (19 November 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2012)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So i was talking to this girl for about 4 months. We went on plenty of dates and She always hinted that She wanted a relationship. She even hinted about sexual interests to me as well. This friday we went out and had an awesome time. Everything was perfect. Then on saturday I ask her to hangout and She says busy. Then Sunday She texts me that She doesnt know What She wants now.

Basically... What could have happend in two days?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (20 November 2012):

kenny agony auntPersonally i think that the worst thing that you can do here is bombard her with texts and calls and come across as being clingy. After the text that you got Sunday i would now leave it, for at least two weeks and see if she contacts you after this time. This happened to me, i was getting on superbly well with this girl, kissing cuddling ect, texting all the time, then she just all of a sudden diden't reply to my last text. A week went by and i refrained from contacting her. In the end she got back in touch with me and we are going out this Friday. I think it was a test to see how clingy i was, or if i was going to send an angry text. So my advice would be to refrain from contacting her and see if she gets back to you. Its going to be hard to do, but worth it i think.

Good luck

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A male reader, human_male New Zealand +, writes (19 November 2012):

human_male agony auntThis is not very helpful but all I can suggest is giving her space, and if she doesn't come around just let her go. You could try talking to her but you probably won't get an honest answer.

The same thing happened to me. She went from inviting me to spend the weekend with her to "I just need space." And not wanting anything to do with me literally in two days. I know it was nothing I did because we didn't see each other during that time.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (19 November 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou need to ask her what's changed. None of us are mind readers... maybe she met someone else, maybe she doesn't want to see you exclusively, maybe she had such a good time she's scared to get closer for fear you will hurt her.

see it could be good it could be bad

ASK HER.

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