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What goes on at Bachelore parties?

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Question - (26 March 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hallo

I have a guestion for guys mainly. Is there any sex or kissing or stuff going on at a Bachelore parties?? I heard from one of my friends haveing BP and the strippers were going down on them for $200 .. I find it not only overpriced but disgusting as well ...

So guys ... come out w your lil Bachelore party stories!

XOXO Michelle

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

Hmmmmm, what difference does it make? Some batchelor parties are pretty wild and others are pretty tame. Are all strippers herion addicts as one poster has proclaimed? absolutely not! Does everyone always have sex? Absolutely not! Should you not marry and dump a guy for attending a wild batchelor party? ....again absolutely not!

Concentrate on your wedding and teh groom...your love to be and stop fretting over things that you have not contrl over.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

$200 for a blowjob? That had better be the best goddamn bj that has ever been done.

What is this world coming to. See this is what Unions do. I agree with their principals, but what in Lord's name give a girl the right to overprice the shit out of a blowie?

$50 tops for me.

I'm playing.

Mostly, Stag parties (thats a bachelor party to you Yanks) consist of shitloads of alcohol, a few strippers and good clean shenanigans (by which I mean total and utter humiliation of the groom. My favourite Urban Legend is of a group that got the groom so drunk they stripped him down and put a G-String on him and taped 50 cents, enough to make a phone call, to the G and sent him on a train into Sydney, where he awoke some time later).

Some parties might get out of control and slip into sex, but none that I know of or have been to. And if the friends are gonna let the groom sleep with a prostitute or stripper than they really aren't good friends.

Chances are, you have nothing to worry about.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (26 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntCareful, we men hear similar things about hen parties, and hen's don't have to pay $200 to get a guy for the bride.

Mostly this stuff is tall tales. Stuff we half-heard and add to our own stories to fit in with the guys.

If you guy is normally straight laced and his friends ain't to extreme, I wouldn't worry.

Remember, he is hearing similar stories about your party, maybe you two need to talk.

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A male reader, wildman United States +, writes (26 March 2008):

wildman agony auntI think it depends on a lot of things. For the most part they are harmless, a lot more than 200 for anything other than a strip show.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (26 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntPersonally, never been to one. I can't see what is entertaining about watching a heroin addict take her clothes off in front of you.

I guess if you are worried about a man getting a BJ or worse from a stripper the night before he gets married, then he's probably the wrong guy to marry in the first place.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

It's not uncommon for there to be sexual activities taking place at a bachelor party. Strippers, blow jobs, intercourse - it all happens. Not at every bachelor party, of course, but it does happen. It depends on the type of guy the party is for - and on what kind of friends he has. If they are pigs, this type of stuff is likely to happen. I guess you just have to know your man well enough to know if he'd participate in such activities - and if he would, don't marry his sorry ass.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

I never kiss and tell, sorry.

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