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What exactly is he playing at?

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Question - (2 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2011)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

He told me that he would not be able to marry me but could always be my boyfriend. When I said that he was not the right man for me, he then got worried and didn't want me to leave. But I still left and he said he was thinking about what I said as he does not want to lose me and will get back to me. What is he playing at?

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (2 January 2011):

kenny agony auntsounds like you called his bluff there, he was trying to be bold and lay down the law with you by saying he diden't want to marry you, but could always be your boyfriend. By saying what you did to him you have given him something to think about, it sounds like he does not want to lose you. Just don't let him keep you waiting around for too long waiting and wondering what is going on. If it goes on for too long, be firm and strong again and give him an ultimatum, if he is still beating around the bush, then maybe its time to move on.

Good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

I don't see the confusion, it's all pretty clear what he's playing at from what you said. He doesn't want to lose you and is now considering what he wants and how he can keep you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2011):

I don't know what it means, but it sounds like he wants to keep you on a hook and play around or find someone else. So just cut him out of your life and stick with it. Let him worry about his own problems.

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