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*ezzaforpm
writes:What does this text mean? Friends or something else?We've been close friends for a year at university, and recently we've got closer since we saw each other with other friends in a small summer get-together. Nothing happened but afterwards since we've parted again, for about a week since, we've been talking by msn, facebook and texts more and more.We talk alot about things we want to do next year, she's going to get me to cook for her alot, every time I joke about letting her down, the amount of times i have to cook goes up and up. I'm also going to teach her the piano. We both want to spend more time together. Cooking and spending time together, but i would of thought 'just friends' would have had other friends being mentioned and plans more for the whole group kinda thing? No?Anyway, she was going out with someone last couple of terms but broke up when university ended. We weren't as close when she was with this other guy, but still friends. I never told her why and we've both put the less hanging out thing behind us.Back to the present and we're both looking forward to spending time tog. I'm texting her alot at her request (inc. morning texts) , we have nicknames for each other: silly private names, I call her 'my girl' or similar by text and she seems to like it, she'll text me for company not as if she has anything really to say.One text tonight (I've just said that I probably won't be in Soton at the same time as her so we probably couldn't see each other down there.) She wants to meet up some other time:" Damn, don't think I can do friday the 10th - ### and #### are taking me to some place.You free any other time?We can always go out sometime in freshers if not"What do you think? Still friends or something more?I absolutely love her! And we know each very well but this feels like something new.
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reader, jezzaforpm +, writes (4 September 2010):
jezzaforpm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks people! Your answered were appreciated alot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): I think his girl definately has feelings for you that are more than platonic, she is also feeling the same way you are (confused) as it must all be new to her too but she is testing the water with that text I think to see how you will respond. Us women hate to make fools of ourselves over blokes so she is being discreet in telling you she likes you and wants to know if you feel the same. Go with it!
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Generally if you're "gut" feeling is telling you something is different then most likely it is. It's hard to just tell from that text on our end, but from what you are describing it sounds like she has more than a simple friend interest. You two also seem very flirty so I suggest going for it and asking her out on an official date.
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