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What does it mean when your bf only has sex with you, doggy-style?

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Question - (5 February 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2016)
A female United States, anonymous writes:

What does it mean when your bf only has sex with you doggy-style? I love my bf so much, and we have been discussing future plans that might lead to marriage! He is the best sex that I have ever had...EVER! And he sure pleases me in everything that he does for me! I just want to know why he wants to do it from behind. I am satisfied sexualy...and I am not complaining! I do want to marry this man, and I thought that I would never do that with the losers I have been with in the past! Thanks for your responses!

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A male reader, Doogystyle1 +, writes (14 August 2016):

You are all wrong. No offense. I am obsessed with doggy style myself. There are a bunch of different smaller reasons. The view...penetration wise it's awesome for a guy. The BIGGEST reason is being dominant. Doggy style is, in my opinion, the most submissive position for a woman to be in. Think about all the animals that have sex this way. Whether you think of it as the female submits or the male takes her from behind it is all about control. It's also why we like to spank and pull hair to enforce his Alpha role.

There is no wrong or best sex position. It is what turns you on. There is nothing wrong with catering to desire even if it is ultimately an emotional need. Stop thinking about it and do what feels good and turns you on.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007):

why dont you take control and go on top. then you WILL see the whites of his eyes

Good luck

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A male reader, Dagwood South Africa +, writes (5 February 2007):

Dagwood agony auntDoggy style is great, personally I love it but the problem is that you loose eye contact with your partner and that's very important when being intimate. Tell him that you want to change from time to time so that you can see the pleasure in his eyes when he makes love to you. Otherwise enjoy...

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntGuys tend to get more satisfaction from the doggy style since it allows them to get deeper into you but obviously it can get kind of boring if you're a girl, especially if you don't get as much out of it as him. Other positions that will give him a similar feeling but be slightly more pleasurable for you are side to side sex and you on top. Tell him you love your sex life but would like to try some different positions. Surely he can't say no to a girl who wants to spice up their sex life??

CD

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (5 February 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntWell, doggy style is a fun position!

f you want to try something new, you're going to have to bring it up with him. If you're looking for the reason he likes this position so much, well... it's a good one. Feels tightest, you get the deepest and he's got great control from back there.

If you're satisfied sexually and this isn't really a problem, well you're a lucky lady. If you're dying of curiousity, then it's time to go to your boyfriend - not us - about it!

xxIndia

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007):

Some men and women just get into a confort zone. And maybe this is his the dogie position. I would go with it and slowly introduce your own positions that you also enjoy. That way he will be comfortable with it. Like I said slowly introduce and you may be surprized how happy he will be that you want to experment different positions. My experence is that guys like it when women are more open to new things so just show him right off and keep the lines of communication open.

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A female reader, JulietteElise United States +, writes (5 February 2007):

JulietteElise agony auntYou should ask him, only he can answer this. Obviously he likes it a lot this way (and so do you), and doggy-style is a very easy way to penertrate as deeply as possable. I suppose some of it could be he loves being in the dominateing role, but if you ever feel like doing a diffrent position just ask! you said he goes out of his way to please you, so i'm sure he would be accomidateing. There's nothing wrong with the doggy style though, and it dosunt mean he's gay if you were worried about that. So if you want to know, ask him! noone else can answer for him

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007):

Wow easy on the exclamation marks there. If you're satisfied whats the problem? Means he just likes that position to me. Simple.

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