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female
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30-35,
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writes: this guy in college I hadn't noticed him before but when I first looked at him he kept staring until I looked away does that mean he's been checking me out for long?anyway a few months after that we have been making eye contact every time we pass by each other and he smiles at me often but only when he is with his friend.When he is alone he can hardly look at me.once he gave me a very wide smile thinking I was smiling at him and his friend asked him to talk to me but he didn't.and I saw him look at a girl whom he knows and even when smiled at her when I was there and once when that girl and myself were sitting a bit nearby he turned sidewards and kept looking at her.that girl has a boyfriend.one day an other friend of that guy sang that I have beautiful eyes while I was going by that way and next day maybe he was telling it to his group this guy was there and he immediately interfered saying I was his senior.After that I heard them tease him when I walk by but that was only once and they started staring at me.but because this guy never spoke to me and with all that staring I thought there was some rumor about me so I stopped looking at him.but now this guy started to try and make eye contact.he even started coming in the same bus and tried to touch me a few times.i once saw him looking out for someone I don't know whom but when he saw me coming he moved a bit sidewards and looked at me.once after coming out from exam hall he was sitting directly opposite with his friends(no one usually sits there)to the place I always sit and kept staring he left the place when he saw me leaving.i don't understand why doesn't he talk to me if he likes me he isn't shy.everyone in college keep calling me beautiful many guys always say that while I'm walking past them though even they don't approach me.i don't understand why.please help me.he stares at me sometimes even now but i'm confused what's he trying to do?
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reader, kevin3007 +, writes (11 July 2010):
i think they are making a game if you go and talk to him about this and what he wants from you he wins lesten to me sister if he realy likes you he'll come and ask you out(you're not gonna kill him ) befor you fly away from his hands cause you're pretty and any one could ask you out and in that case he'll lose you for ever so i advise you to stay away from him and don't look at him back or even try to smile to him ....... sister DON'T TALK TO STRANGERS!!! (unless he comes and says what he wants)
ps: be carefull they all seem nice and perfect
good luck and i hope he'll ask you out very soon.
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