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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of 4 months went on holday for 2 weeks and text me only four times,only in response to the texts i sent him!! he hasnt even called me! what does this mean!
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reader, ...cat...  +, writes (17 August 2007):
i wouldnt worry about it 2 much!!men genrally arn't very good at keeping in touch!! he probably didnt even realise he wasnt contacting u as much as he should!!tell him how it made u feel and see how he reacts, if he apoligises and is really sweet about it its all good, if he isnt and gets smart with you about it, re-evaluate your relationship, just dont get angry when u talk 2 him about it or he probably will too and nothing will b resolved!! goodluck xxx
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (17 August 2007):
 It means he didn't want to talk to you.
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reader, skye +, writes (17 August 2007):
 I cant tell for certain, but your boyfriend might not view his lack of communication as insensitive behaviour as you do. I know lots of people who go half way around the planet on holiday and dont even ring to say they arrived safely - incomprehensible in my "little world", but perfectly normal in theirs. Perhaps its very expensive to telephone or text from where he is. I would tell him how hurt you are feeling and ask him to please ring you in future. Explain that you are a worrier and would like to know that he is still alive. Do it quite light-heartedly. You dont want to end up having an arguement. Unless your boyfriend has given you any reason to be suspicious in your 4 months together, I dont think you have too much to worry about; and you can always go away together next time.
Best wishes,
Skye
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reader, kenny +, writes (17 August 2007):
 Persoanlly if it were me i would have made the effort to at least give my girlfriend a call, but everyone is different. I assume he is on a lads holiday?. In which case it could be his mates would laugh at him saying he is reporting home or something, its hard to say. But then if he found the time to text he could have made the call.
All you can do is ask him why he diden't call and see what he says.
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