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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I started talking to this guy late last year, at first we were just really close friends we have talked almost every single day since then but recently about 4months ago our feelings started growing into something so big it's indescribable. We say I love you to each other everyday and always tell each other how much we care about each other and why we love each other etc...I've talked to people that know him better than I do and they all said he's not the player type of guy, he is really sweet caring and nice. He accepts me for who I am and I can always be 100% with him. I swear it feels like we've been dating for the past couple of months....we recently hung out this past Saturday....we went to the movies where he treated me like a queen. That's when I realized Our feelings for each other are really true. He respects me and the way he looks at me is as if we could be together just holding each other without having to involve anything sexual. I can tell he really cares about me, but what I don't understand is why on a social media website he made a status saying he wishes he had a girl because he's starting to get lonely.....when I'm clearly right here giving him my whole heart and he does the same for me....but I wasn't really bothered by that until now a couple of hours ago I asked him "randomly askin but we both love each other so much...we've proved it within the past months....so why aren't we dating?" He said he doesn't kno why....so I asked him if he wants to date me or still be single and he said he thinks he still wants to be single but he asked what do I think....so I said I wanted a relationship....he asked if I "really" want a relationship and I said no because I would never forced him to do something he doesn't want to do then he said "okay :) I love you so much :)" ...I'm here thinking to myself does this mean he jst doesn't wanna be with me because a week ago he said he wanted a girl....or is it because he is just using me? Even tho his feelings really seem sincere....or what's happening?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2014): Doll, it sounds like he's wasting your time, get out of there!
He's messing you about and playing with your emotions! It sounds to me like he wants a girl to show off about, he doesn't really care about the girl he gets. When he says 'I'm lonely' he sounds as though he's referring to someone he can have sex with, I may be wrong but I have male friends like this and I see the way they work girls and it's a lot like this. They say they love them and all the rest of it but just want the girl to give it up to them, the serious girl for them is the girl that doesn't give it up and then the other girls are the girls they say they love to get into bed.
Don't stick around, hun.
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