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*oeizmex
writes:I have read that size doesn't matter and stuff and that foreplay is very important. What actually does foreplay mean? And why doesn't penis size matter? I have a 5.5 inch penis when erected and 5 girth.... Is that good to satisfy a women? I'm also a virgin and uncircumcised....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (9 January 2009):
 I see you need some basic sex education, which is a good thing to have. I have a link for you to read; it has some diagrams which explain the anatomy and good information about sexuality. Please try to read it all the way through so you don't miss any key points!
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/teens/guide-teens-families-4318.htm
Think of the clitoris as a teensy weensy little penis; they are both made from the same cells in an embryo. When the male fetus is exposed to male hormones, those cells turn into a penis. The female fetus' cells make the clitoris.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
The vagina is the tubular tract that leads to the uterus.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina
The exterior genitals of a woman are called the vulva.
http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/your-guide-female-reproductive-system
The thing to keep in mind is that most women do not reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone. The clitoris is the key to most women's orgasms, so do not ignore it, and do not take it personally if the girl doesn't orgasm during intercourse. It doesn't mean your penis doesn't feel good inside and she is not finding intercourse pleasurable. It just means that the clitoris is not being stimulated enough for her to climax. Again, think of the clitoris as a little penis; if your penis isn't stimulated during sexual play, would you reach climax?
I think that you asking this question is a good sign; you want to learn and that's a good thing. Just don't rush into anything you don't fully understand, and don't pressure anyone if they're not ready yet. And safe sex, please! (You can look that up at plannedparenthood or webmd.)
Take care.
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reader, woeizmex +, writes (9 January 2009):
woeizmex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionplanepocket Good answer. But what do u mean by the clitoris is on the outside of the body? I thought it is the same thing as vagina... Can u tell me more? ThanksDoubleM Thanks for taking your time to write that much, it helped.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Foreplay begins with providing your woman with a romantic and comfortable atmosphere that may lead to intimacy. This can mean a nice dinner at a quiet restaurant, a evening before the fireplace on a chilly night, whatever your woman is most likely to enjoy.
It invariably moves on to hugging and kissing passionately, and this should include whispering at least some "sweet nothings" - such as telling her how sweet she looks and smells, that sort of thing.
With a good beginning, you ay be allowed to add some fondling, usually beginning with caressing her breasts. Begin slowly at first, just moving one hand from her back at side toward the side of her breast while kissing passionately. If she allows this more private move, you may proceed with firm motions to caress her breasts.
You may notice that her breathing becomes a bit more labored or quicker, and perhaps you will be allowed to begin loosening her blouse. That's a good sign, and soon you may have bared her breasts and can massage her much more intimately. You may likely redirect your kissing to her breasts, licking and gently sucking her nipples - which may become quite erect.
In time, your next move will be to return kissing her mouth, keeping one hand on a breast while slowly slipping your other hand toward her private area. If she allows this, just grasp and massage her crotch slowly with your whole hand. She will likely respond rather passionately, even pressing herself against your hand. If she is skirted, it will soon be time to lift her dress and begin working your hand into her panties, directly groping her mound.
Foreplay involves all the above, and should last for at least a half hour or more. Foreplay may also include other activities following all the kissing, licking, fondling and groping including fingering her vagina, massaging her vulva, kissing and licking her vulva (cunnilingus) and more. Foreplay is all that precedes sexual intercourse. Hope that helps explain it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): foreplay is very much needed before sex. It can be anything from kissing to oral sex and should be enjoyed i think. Foreplay is there to make you fully aroused so you are both ready for penetration. 5.5 inches is fine and you will meet a person that sees it that way i promise. try to be confident.
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reader, DollFacex  +, writes (9 January 2009):
 Really it doesnt matter the size honey. Just as long as you know what you are doing. In other words, the woman will like it if you are doing things to pleasure her, and even though its your first time...don't make it all about you. A 5.5 inch penis is round about the average size so i would worry about it DollFacex
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reader, planepocket +, writes (9 January 2009):
Foreplay is kissing,hugging,touching basically everything you do with clothes on.Penis size doesn't matter because the most sensitive part of a woman is on the outside of the body and it is called the clitoris.It is fine to be a virgin until you are ready for sex and being uncircumcised is normal and better for you and any woman you will be with.
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