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female
age
30-35,
*lara1111
writes:Hello. I met someone one month ago. He's 31 and from California, and I'm 21 from Malaysia. The thing is, we are still in a friend zone of course, but he believe in me so much. Well I trust him too without any doubt. He said he like me so much and me as well. He is living in Thailand now, and I'm in Malaysia still studying and will graduate this November. I'm not a rich girl, so he sent me some money so I can get my passport, coz we really wanna see each other. He even bought me a return ticket to fly to thailand on next week.He asked me if I would like to stay in a hotel or house, so i choosed house and he even rented a new house there.We are planning to get marry, and we are so happy about it. We just don't know when is it gonna happen.So i'm going to thailand next week for 3weeks and see if things going well between us.Sometimes I feel so lucky but I don't wanna get to carried away. What do you guys think? About the age gap, races or any of you guys have been through this?
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reader, CMMP  +, writes (5 January 2013):
Both can be an issue, but they don't have to be. It just depends on how flexible and accommodating the two of you are.
My wife is Guatemalan and I'm American and there are some cultural differences that are a little annoying sometimes, but nothing that's a deal breaker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2013): That he wants to marry you having never met you in person is a huge red flag to me.
Please make sure you meet this guy in a public place the first time you meet him!
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2013): Also smart move on "so i choosed house and he even rented a new house there." Good at lest you werr thinking a bit there ^-^ It would be a very bad idea and not safe thing to move in with him right now as you do not know him. So good job on choosing to rent the home.
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