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writes:So me and my ex, still talk, we had to break up because she isnt ready for a realtsionship right now, because shes still in the process of getting over her ex, of three years, just 2 weeks ago he finally told her hes done with her, after ignoring her for 7 months, anyways this girl, we talk every single night on the phone, shell call me randomly to tell me to look at the moon, shell call me before she goes to work, and when she gets off, shell text me good morning and good night, shes told me i mean a lot to her and even though sometimes she doesnt show it she really does appreciate the things i do for her because they mean so much, but sometimes she acts weird, her texts will be short, just yesterday i got her a carnation at our school thing and even thought i saw it she denied it was from me , yet i saw her take it home, im almost thinking she really does liek me but she s might be lieing to herself because she is honestly not ready for a realtionship right now, im in love with her but im peing patient i dont wanna ruin anything, waht do you guys think about her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): I think i would try giveing her some space to let her decide for herself what it is she might be losing. Women dont always make sence to us simple minded creatures. The more i learn,the less i know. Slowly start drifting,then,take it easy.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Give it a little bit of time a month or so let her have her space. Don't call her for a day or two just be her friend. She sounds confused she may like you but not know how much. She might not want to hurt your feelings. After a while when you have given her some space ask her on a date take it slow be a gentleman. Show her you care about her open doors pull out her chair and stand when she leaves the table. That is the gentlemanly way of doing things. Don't give up on love but don't waste your life away waiting on her. space is what she needs right now don't ignore her in order to give her space just let her do what she has to do.
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