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I told my friend I love her but she loves someone else, what should I say now?

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Question - (14 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, there is this girl who I've known since August and she goes to my school and rides my bus. I told her I liked her a couple months after I got to know her. (btw I'm a girl) and then a couple days ago I told her I loved her and she said it didn't bother her or anything like that. So then just to make sure I told her I was sorry for possibly freaking her out by telling her that I love her. So she called me and told me that she wasn't freaked out, but she told me she likes me only as a friend. But to make everything so much worse she told me who she loves. Now I don't even know what to say. I need to talk to her but I don't know what to say. What should I say to her?

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (14 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt yeah the best thing to do is to just play it kool and be a gudd friend to her...

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A female reader, mabby09 United States +, writes (14 February 2009):

well then, since all this has happen, she already told you she likes you as a friend and after all she loves someone else only thing you can do or to say is "okay I Understand"and be there for her make her know that u really understand but u know what there a plenty of people in this world i had to deal with it...but later just see what happen next.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009):

If you love her as you claim, then let her be your friend and be happy for her.

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